Learn Pick Up Artist Seduction

This post is about getting into sexual state,and being able to easily turn this on or off
depending on the woman in front of you, with ease and freedom of choice, COMBINED WITH the
need to be present.

Re PRESENCE: I have been doing a lot of research lately on the female concept of
creepiness . Women can decide instantly when they find a man to be creepy, but they
cannot often easily define HOW or WHY. My conclusion is that there is an incongruence
in the man, that his outer actions are not matching his inner state. Either that, or he
is “checked out” mentally; ie he may have lust in his eyes, or some other emotion, and
yet be strangely disconnected from the woman in front of him. That’s my definition of
creepiness. Thoughts?

A couple of weeks back I mentioned in a thread how I was altering my visualization
practices. I noticed that in my porn viewing habits cultivated over DECADES, that I was in
the position of VOYEUR to the scene, and that this had a definite and profound effect on my
inner game. Some guys expressed surprise and disbelief at this, but to me now it’s OBVIOUS…

Just look at virtually any porno and the entire psychological frame is with you in the
position of voyeur. Perhaps this is changing a bit now with the popularity of the “POV”
porn.

Anyway, in the book No More Mister Nice Guy author Dr. Glover suggests that we eliminate
porn entirely, and we use visualization in the way I am suggesting: putting yourself in
a powerful and masculine and active – as opposed to passive – role in whatever scene
you choose to create in the mind. Due to literally decades of relying on visual
stimulus, I have found it very difficult to climax using my imagination alone. And when
I did, I tended to drift back to voyeuristic fantasies that I had developed through porn.

I think I’ve now found a good interim solution. The solution I derived is to only
watch porn which is female solo masturbation. Then I imagine she is fantasizing about ME
and about ME fucking her. It’s a convoluted trick, I know, but the only effective one
I’ve come up with so far. And I can also confess that even THIS is difficult, in terms
of being able to reach a climax, but it’s more effective than anything else I’ve found,
and it’s getting easier and more pleasurable with determined practice.

My game is MILES ahead of where I was even a few short years ago. But even to this day,
there are many occasions where I have found myself having a great time with a woman,
great conversation, then we part ways and suddenly I realize I have completely failed
to escalate… I have kept things on a purely platonic level. Congratulations man, you
now have created Pivot #4593898538958. Yes, I try to escalate at that point, but the
realization that this woman considers me platonic and its entirely of my making is
still somewhat startling in that moment. There may of course be better or more
efficient ways to get ones mind into my desired position, and I am excited to hear
about them. My goal as stated at the outset is to be able to turn on and off the sexual
state by my own free will, and simultaneously to be present with whomever I am
interacting with, either male or female, UG or HB.

Some say that your sexual state should always be ON, but I don’t think that’s entirely true.
It should be calibrated and the woman receiving that transmission should
QUALIFY for it in some way. If it’s only her great ass that turns you on, I think you’ve
got to find a way to convey that in the most authentic (yet still tactful) way possible.