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Developing A Seducers Identity

I recommend printing these questions off and answering them.

If you have your identity sorted and purpose in life you will be able to answer all of them.

(1) Get in touch with your true passions and true purpose – its way more unusual to be in touch with your true purpose than be directionless or have other people controlling your life as most people are.

(a) What are your special talents?
(b) What things do you do that feel effortless and enjoyable?
(c) What things would you do if you had $1,000,000,000?
(d) What things give you energy, give you happiness, and give you enjoyment?
(e) What things could you try if you are not sure what these could be?
(f) What could you do today that would make your life more fun and more spontaneous?
(g) When is the last time you did something completely different?

Being in touch with your purpose in life give you sources of energy that are beyond normal power. It gives you confidence, an aura, a presence, and a state of mind that people want to be around.

Picture yourself as a 90 year old person looking back at their life. What would you have liked to have achieved so that you would consider your life to be fulfilling with few regrets?

(h) Do you have a secret passion that you wish you had done or could do? If so what is it?
(i) If you had all the money and the resources you needed and you could spend your life in anyway you choose – what would you do?
(j) Dream a little, what do you want your day to be like in exactly 1 year’s time?
(k) What is missing from your life right now?
(l) What obstacles are in your way right now that stops you achieving what you believe to be your ideal life or way of living?
(m) List 3 goals you would like to achieve.
(n) What is your idea of the perfect day?
(o) What is your idea of success?

Getting in touch with your inner purpose is a life changing experience. Flirt with the idea. If you like painting, paint for 1 hour per week, if its real estate, buy some magazines and books. Ever seen a person who just looks amazingly content?

(2) If someone was to describe you in one line what would they say?

(a) What one paragraph sums you up?
(b) When you write an online dating, or Myspace profile do you know who you are?
(c) Do you know your goals, your life, and your identity?
(d) What are the best things about you?
(e) Are you the fun guy?
(f) Are you the serious guy?
(g) Are you the guy who is writing a book?

(3) What are your friends like?

What do your friends say about you?

(4) What can people guess about you by your tastes?

(a) What’s your favorite drink?
(b) Are you outgoing or shy?
(c) What music do you listen to?
(d) What image do you portray?
(e) What car do you drive?
(f) What job do you have?
(g) Where do you live?
(h) Where have you been?
(i) What’s your goal for the year?
(j) What’s your income bracket?
(k) What industry do you work in?
(l) What do you like to talk about?
(m) What movies do you like to watch?
(n) What books do you like to read?
(o) What hobbies do you do?
(p) What sort of holidays do you like?
(q) What is your status on moral and political issues?
(r) What are your values?
(s) What is your relationship status?
(t) What were you like as a child?
(u) What’s your favorite thing to do with a girl?
(v) Where do your parents live?
(w) What is your relationship with your mother?
(x) How often do you talk to your family?
(y) Where did you meet your friends?
(z) What’s your favorite thing to do on a Sunday?
(aa) What’s the most creative thing you do?

(5) What sexually attractive icon do you relate to?

(a) A sensual lover like Johnny Depp in Don Juan?
(b) A tough muscled bad boy
(c) A talented misunderstood artist
(d) A rocker or punk
(e) A powerful businessman, Trump style
(f) A sexy dancer
(g) A reliable family guy, dependable, strong
(h) An adventurer
(i) An entrepreneur like Richard Branson, dashing, brave
(j) A beautiful baby faced cute guy
(k) Jude Law type charm
(l) Hugh Grant styled funny and charming

(6) What is your week like?

(a) How much do you work?
(b) How much do you stay home?
(c) How much do your socialise?
(d) How much do you do hobbies?
(e) How much do you exercise?
(f) How much do you sleep?
(g) What are your priorities?
(h) What is a great week for you?

(7) What makes you unique?

(a) What have you done on your own with no help from anyone?
(b) What are you most proud of?
(c) What attitudes of yours are non-conforming?
(d) What belief do you hold that you don’t care what people think about?
(e) What have you done that not many people can do?
(f) What is your most valued skill?
(g) When was your feeling of most content?
(h) What period of your life felt the most fun?
(i) When were you most attractive to women?
(j) What are you working on now that will set you apart from the crowd?
(k) What are your favorite excuses?
(l) What are your biggest obstacles?
(m) What is printed on your wall as your biggest goal?
(n) What do you want most?
(o) How can you stand out more in the future?
(p) How you can help other people most?
(q) If you have a school reunion in 5 years what would you like to have achieved?

(8) What super powers lie inside you?

a. How can you be truly great?
b. How can you create a legacy?
c. How can you be remembered 100 years after you die?
d. How can you be truly great?
e. Who believes in you most on the earth?
f. What is the best use of your time?
g. What will you be most proud of when you die?
h. What do you want people to say at your funeral?
i. If you were diagnosed with a terminal cancer and had 3 months to live right now how would you spend it?
j. Where do you want to go most in the world?
k. What’s your dream home?
l. What is truly great about you?
m. What game plan do you have to get yourself out of depressing states?
n. What is your level of self belief like?
o. Do you know what you are worth?
p. Do you go out and get what you are worth?
q. How can you increase what you are worth in your mind?
r. Are you worth your goals?
s. What gives you energy in your life?

(9) How can you develop a global identity?

McDonalds has what they call a global identity.

(a) How can you break free from your local social conditioning and be part of something much bigger?
(b) How can you be a recognizable face?

(10) Incisive questions

(a) If you knew you could do it, what would the first step be?
(b) If you knew you had the skill necessary, what is the first thing you would do?
(c) If you were not afraid, what would you do?
(d) If you began to care more about yourself rather than what other people think of you, how would you feel / what would you do?
(e) If you had to make one change in your work / home life today, what would that question be?
(f) If you knew you were good enough / attractive enough, what would change for you?
(g) If you knew you were worth it, what would you want?
(h) If you had 50% more confidence in yourself, what would you be doing / what would be different?
(i) If you knew you were a leader, what would you be leading?
(j) For things to be perfect, what would have to change?
(k) If you could change something in your environment, what would you change?
(l) If you knew that change was painless and easy, what would you change about yourself?
(m) If you knew decision making was easy, what immediate decision would you make?


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Identity is one of the most important things to develop as a pick up artist.

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